Every Place At Once.
I am sitting at a memorial service in a church snug in the east end of Singapore. The master of ceremony goes up to the pulpit. He tells us that […]
Young People and Grief in Digital Spaces
Where do young people go to when they grief? Do they cry alone in their bedrooms? Do they logon to the internet? How do young people in grief find each […]
Grief and the “distance” of decluttering.
I’ve had a super emotionally heavy day.
what holding space really looks like.
This is not a manual. This is not a thank you list. This is catharsis. This is what holding space really looks like before, during, and after the death of […]
have yourself a merry little christmas;
Today is my first day back at work. “Work” as in academic work work, “work” as in boy am I supposed to be churning out some pretty amazing and mind-blowing […]
Processing grief, in five chapters.
I feel a lot of pressure to make quick decisions, to anticipate the future, to placate angry people, to console grieving people, to emote more, to emote less, to hurry, […]
On the value of public grieving, in 22 Tweets.
It is 0203hrs. I got up to take an hourlong […]
Translations, care, and paralanguages.
It is 0212hrs on a Tuesday morning in Singapore. I am typing away in a dark room in Chinatown while my two best friends are asleep beside me.
Better static than stasis.
“On distance swims between two islands, I would sometimes stop mid-course to look around. To find myself equidistant between two points gave me the funniest feeling. To think that back […]
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